The Favor of God
Have you ever pondered the emotional roller coaster that Mary, the mother of Jesus must have experienced? This topic has been on my mind lately as I stop and consider what she must have felt as mother of The Messiah; the One that was to Deliver the people and be King of all. The bible states that Mary was favored by God since she was chosen to give birth to the Messiah. Yet, if Mary had been born in modern times, in the age of quick fixes and instant gratification, I doubt many of us would see her as favored.
Consider some of the difficulties in Mary's life and keep in mind that she was mother to the Messiah...The King. Mary an ordinary girl, found herself pregnant before marriage due to no action of her own...A socially devastating situation back then; She had to travel approximately 80 miles on a donkey during the last month of her pregnancy... An undeniable hardship; Mary gave birth in a mangy stall rather than in a warm and comfortable room...Not exactly what you'd expect for the son of God. When Jesus was a toddler, they fled to Egypt with little notice to hide from King Herod...Doesn't it seems strange that the Son of God would have to run from anyone? Mary and her family didn't live a life of privilege but rather she was of ordinary income and was married to a simple carpenter... That too seems backwards, after all shouldn't the Son of God live a life of luxury? Think of a mother's heart as Mary watched her son rise to amazing prominence and then with no notice, her boy became scorn and shame. This poor mom watched as her son was tortured, ridiculed, and killed as a common thief even though he was innocent and even though he was the Messiah.
...Sounds like a life that is harder than most of us will ever know.
This life, is the one that God called "favored."
God could have easily shown her our type of favor every step of the way and made her life easy but He didn't, he let her live life, with all its imperfections and hardships. The reality is, looking BACK on her life as a whole... she WAS greatly blessed and favored.
If an angel stood before me today and said "Greetings woman, you are greatly favored by God." I would probably think that from the moment the statement was uttered, all would be well in my life and that everything I put my hand to would be quickly blessed. That even riches would be bestowed upon me and my family, and that my children would prosper and be blessed. BUT...that is an incredibly short sighted view and a byproduct of our culture of instant gratification.
Our God isn't a product of any one generation and instead always sees the whole, complete picture and simply doesn't measure blessings or success by day to day events.
Mary was blessed even though a lot of her life was hard. After all, She has a fantastic place in history that no other woman can ever share and her son still lives and is still performing miracles in people's lives.
That my friend, is being favored by God!
We must remember that when things are hard or if our circumstances fall short of what we expect; if we feel put down and not respected by the world; if money is tight and needs aren't being met - it doesn't mean that God's favor isn't with us.
If our heart is right before God, we can be assured that we are exactly where our great God wants us and our outcomes (the end of the story) will be beautiful too.
This Christmas, when need and want are paramount and short term blessings weigh heavily upon our hearts; Let's ask the Lord for eyes to see life and circumstances through His eyes and to not be discouraged by day to day hardship. Lets walk on the lie of instant gratification and follow Mary's example, of hiding the truth in her heart and waiting patiently on God to demonstrate His favor in her life.
May the favor and blessings of Almighty God be upon you and yours this Christmas season.
By Rhonda Shelford Jansen